Tuesday, November 17, 2009

Why is it that White men tend to not pay attention to women of other races (Asians don't count)

I'm a very attractive woman. I'm African-American, bronze skin tone and I have mahogany colored eyes. My hair is long, black, and wavy and I am in good shape! I'm not fat at all and I have an hourglass figure. I mostly get attention from Black and Hispanic men, but Asian and ESPECIALLY White men probably look but they never approach me. Why is that? How come White men never approach/hit on me? Is there something that I'm doing to "set" them off? I'm attracted to men of all kinds of colors, but I just do not understand why it's so hard to communicate with a White guy on an intimate level?



Why is it that White men tend to not pay attention to women of other races (Asians don't count)?

I see different patterns than that - my boss is a white guy married to a black woman, one of my best friends from college is a black woman married to a white guy. When I lived in Arizona, I had two supervisors who were mexican, married to white men. But I think there are different patterns in different parts of the country and I'm sure it is also different from one city to another in the same area.



Why is it that White men tend to not pay attention to women of other races (Asians don't count)?

why worry about it consider yourself lucky



Why is it that White men tend to not pay attention to women of other races (Asians don't count)?

I know from talking to "white men" that a lot of them prefer their own race or Asians.



Why is it that White men tend to not pay attention to women of other races (Asians don't count)?

Maybe they are too shy to come up to you and say you're beautiful. Some guys, I don't care what race they are, are intimidated by beautiful girls.



Why is it that White men tend to not pay attention to women of other races (Asians don't count)?

I think some may be intimidated. There is an image of the strong black woman that I think may scare some. It's silly but people often are. Approach them most would probably like to hit on you but just don't have the balls.



Why is it that White men tend to not pay attention to women of other races (Asians don't count)?

well asian ppl are generally shy and cacausians...... I don't know



Why is it that White men tend to not pay attention to women of other races (Asians don't count)?

I don't think it has much to do with your race to be honest. Most guys are afraid to approach very attractive women because they are afraid of rejection (white men especially, ask my brother). They may think since this girl is so pretty, she surely has a boyfriend or would never go for a guy like me......you know? Take it as a compliment girl......



Why is it that White men tend to not pay attention to women of other races (Asians don't count)?

im white and i find all women of all races attractive, if they have all the right things i look for in a lady i am attracted to them. they dont approach you because they are uncomfortable with themselves, its not your fault. they are afraid of a negative reaction (a comment about race) from you if they ask you out.



Why is it that White men tend to not pay attention to women of other races (Asians don't count)?

im a white guy and well ya i wouldnt go out with an african-american no offence of anything just not my style



Why is it that White men tend to not pay attention to women of other races (Asians don't count)?

white guys are only attracted to white girls



Why is it that White men tend to not pay attention to women of other races (Asians don't count)?

Theres nothing wrong with you. Its probaly they like dating their own race. Theres many reasons for it but they missing out on something special



Why is it that White men tend to not pay attention to women of other races (Asians don't count)?

Maybe their just shy



Why is it that White men tend to not pay attention to women of other races (Asians don't count)?

I am white, I have never dare approach black chicks. It will draw attention from pubic.



That's what my parents taught me when I grew up.. . Please don't get me wrong that I do have some friends. and not concern this as racist. Just the natural reaction.



Maybe you should try approach white guys and see what happens.



Why is it that White men tend to not pay attention to women of other races (Asians don't count)?

well ill tell you but first i must say im not racist in any way and i do like black people and i practically live in a black community so theyre cool. im asian and most asian people i know would have black people as friends but would never really date them. i dont know why its just how we are i guess. but there are occasions wen an asian girl dates a black guy but i dont think ive seen it the other way around. well thats just me speaking for the asians i dont know about the white people.



Why is it that White men tend to not pay attention to women of other races (Asians don't count)?

You have brought up an excellent point. You are MUCH more likely to see a Black man with a white women, and rarely vice versa. I'm not sure why that is.



Also, GOOD point about the asians. You never see like an asian women with a hispanic man...the thought of it, although i think acceptable, is slightly weird.



So, I'm not answering your question, I'm just giving you Kudos on bringing it up. White men really tend to keep with white women. White people are just white people. It's just how we roll. *shrugs* All political correctness aside...



Why is it that White men tend to not pay attention to women of other races (Asians don't count)?

thats a good question, i dont kno why but im like that guy that you just described... i guess its because of us (Guys) assuming your another race that we like (personal for some guys, some guys are kinky with races) and a friend says your another race we might get disapointed that we guessed wrong. (such as Fergie... she looks brazilan, latino, and a little black) thats probably why we do that i Guess?



Why is it that White men tend to not pay attention to women of other races (Asians don't count)?

Hey, I'm Asian...I guess I never dated too many African American. I really think some are beautiful just like any other race. I would just put behind the race (probably not at all about race or color), just work your magic and start flirting with who ever you are attracted to...whether he is Asian, Caucasian, or any other race or mix. Heck, we are becoming as one hybrid. If you like something...go get it and human interest and smile can go a long ways. Maybe you need to stop thinking about yourself (ya, you are probably hot), but let's get pass that point (beauty is only skin deep) and see if you can connect..personality, common interests, fun to be around with, etc. Good luck in your search.



Why is it that White men tend to not pay attention to women of other races (Asians don't count)?

ummm I'm half Asian half white... and i can give you an answer... its the same basic concept as in high school when the nerds don't approach the popular girls.... its not because we know that you will say no its because of the subcultural differences....I'm a HUGE fan of rock and metal for example and it plays a huge part in my life so i look for someone with a similar interest and in general African American women aren't interested in that...the subcultural differences provide a lack of attraction for some subconscious reason



Why is it that White men tend to not pay attention to women of other races (Asians don't count)?

Keep it real. For some White men, there might be some type of stigma that would go along with a White guy dating a Black girl. Maybe some guys with old-fashioned or conservative parents might let this get in the way of getting to know you. I once connected really well with this White guy during a summer trip, but he just kind of emotionally distanced himself and ignored me even though it was really obvious that he was really attracted to me. But then on the other hand, I have been approached by or detected serious interest from Asian, Black, and White men, and my husband is Hispanic. I can think of at least three White guys I could have dated if I wanted to, and I met them in the span of a few months. And my hair is not long and wavy. It is black, but I wear it natural (twists, braids, etc). Also, I'm really dark, and have been even called too dark by other Black people. What matters is your personal level of confidence. If you believe that you can attract a man, you will. So if you've got it going on, just relax, and expect positive results. Sometimes you will need to make the first move, in terms of flirting. Maybe a White guy might not know how to approach a Black girl. I had an experience where I could tell this White guy was interested in me, and when he was around me he started using slang terms. Ummm, he didn't use them right...and it was kind of weird. So maybe the White guys approaching you might just not know what to do. Say hi, look cute, do your thing, and you'll get the results you expect. And if that one guy really doesn't pay attention, then it's his loss. Whatever. Let the preconceived notions go and amazing things will happen.



Why is it that White men tend to not pay attention to women of other races (Asians don't count)?

Whereas there are many white men who find African-American women attractive and intelligent, there is a significant minority of African-American women who simply would not consider becoming involved with a white man; and some of these women, if approached by a white man, choose to put the man off in an insensitive and unpleasant manner which serves to put the man off from approaching any African-American women in the future. In addition, many of the Black/Hispanic men giving you attention are probably looking at you in a purely sexual light (hot babe) whereas many white men place a woman's personality above the pure sexual desire. You are in a dilemma because whereas some white guys would be grateful for you taking the initiative (approaching them), thereby removing the doubt from their mind as to whether their interest is welcome, there are other guys who would read your signals incorrectly and assume you are "easy". Although I have no access to African-American women (I live in London) my experience is based on Caribbean (Jamaican, Bajan) and African (Nigerian, Ghanaian) ladies. I am actually a white guy who notices ONLY (dark-complexion) Black Queens but I am not an hourglass man - I am strictly a plus-size man.



Why is it that White men tend to not pay attention to women of other races (Asians don't count)?

Depending on where and how a guy was raised he might not consider another race attractive.I was raised in aracially diverse neighborhood.I had girlfriends who were Japanese,Korean,Philipino,African American,Mexican,Iranian,Indian,Cuban,Pu... Rican.When you look beyond race and color,you find that women are women.They arent all the same but they arent all that different either.One of my favorite songs has these lyrics:There are so many colors in the rainbow,so many colors in the morning sun,so many colors in the flowers.I love every one.



Why is it that White men tend to not pay attention to women of other races (Asians don't count)?

Are you looking for a mate or a fan club. Find your one man and stick with him.



Why is it that White men tend to not pay attention to women of other races (Asians don't count)?

thats good I think everyone should stay with their own race



Why is it that White men tend to not pay attention to women of other races (Asians don't count)?

it dont matter how u look. because white women r the bomb diggity. i am black and all mean know the attitude that comes with a black woman. so we dont like drama annd hate so we stick with the good attitude and willing to do whatever white woman. they r GREAT. and they look great too. long haired white woman r gods gift to the world.



white men dont need a bad attitude jealous hateful angry "strong"lol, loud and loose vagina-ed , ol' diary of a mad black assed woman turning their hair grey. they stick with the ever so beautiful and nice and willing white woman.



u black women cant compete with a white woman. there is noooooooo competition.

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