Odd quistion but I need some help.?

I am one of those few caucasion women who has the same hair texture as african american woman. My hair is type 4a. and because I have never used much except shampoo and conditioner it has become extremeley dry and briddle . Its breaking off and thinning out. I am tryint doo gro products trying to moisturize but it dosnt seam to be actually getting into the hair its just sitting on top of my head. PLEASE ANYONE I NEED SOME HELP! I have been to a stylist and she cant help me or rather I think me asking has offended her. I cant help my hair type but I have to do something about it without makeing it too oily I dont want anyone to think I am a white girl tryin to be black. Lots a love to the anyone who can help me out.!

Odd quistion but I need some help.?

My two daughters are mixed try the miracle creme from here it's lighter doesn't have the petroleum in it. Basically look for the products in the African hair care aisle that doesn't have petro and you'll have an easier time getting it through your hair.

http://www.african-pride.com/

Odd quistion but I need some help.?

Hmmm...maybe you can use styling products for that type of hair...like different shampoos, conditioners..and of course...grease...

Odd quistion but I need some help.?

Are you going to a stylist who is familiar with your hair type? You know, not everyone can "deal" with that particular hair; try going to a salon that knows what they're doing....

Odd quistion but I need some help.?

Maybe you should go to a dermatologist and see what they can prescribe for you to get your hair back in shape...before it all falls out and you have to wear a wig. good luck but really, go to a dermatologist.

Odd quistion but I need some help.?

i can't help you with styling issues, but to help the dryness and brittleness, try eating jello products( the gelatin not pudding) several times a week.

it sounds goofy but it will really help the condition of your hair.

it also sounds like you need to find a more knowledgeable and sympathetic stylist.

Odd quistion but I need some help.?

Umm yea u uve got a problem there but dont panic its ok...this might seem gross to u but....mix 1 egg n olive oil together n put it on ur hair like 20 minutes befour u take ur shower n after wash it with a shampoo(witout conditioner). ur hair will look shiney n more silky. wash ur hair only 3 times a week not more often...n dont 4get to brush ur hair regularly b4 goin to bed (start from the end) to spred the oil on ur scalp till the end of ur hair. n alwayz get regular haircuts to prevent split ends.

hope i helped a lil

good luck!!